Archive for the ‘Union’ Category

Currently we understand consent as a clear, total and unequivocal Yes all the way throughout an act of sexual intimacy. And that such a Yes must be offered in full consciousness, which means one cannot be “under the influence” in any way, whether of consciousness-altering substances or of “external” power and hierarchy dynamics.

Except, who is fully conscious? Who is clearly and totally and unequivocally connected with and saying Yes (or No!) from the subtlest core of their pure, unmediated, unconditioned being? (more…)

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When the mind is still in dominant play and so, attention is still substantially attuned to the experiential / phenomenal, it is easy to assert that being present and speaking / embracing “truth” includes the “truth of the moment” — that which is experiential, temporal and transient. Once attuned totally and continuously to the unchanging I — even as the waves appear to arise and pass in the infinite, unchanging, oceanic I — it’s impossible to characterize the waves as “truth,” even of the moment, as at all moments there is awareness / embodiment of the oceanic I. (For those in the Seattle area: at all moments there is awareness of the unmoving mountain behind the passing cloud… simply as there is no mind-identification with the experience of cloudiness, while there’s total allowing of it!)  (more…)

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The phenomenon of toxic masculinity and (its victim) feminine (and trans-gender/sexual) vulnerability arises in the same way every old ‘evil’ does — via perceived separation, and of mind-identification with a particular “me.” A “me” that can then have power over, or lose power to, an “other.”

A gross manifestation of the separation as “you” and “me” is via the concept of gender, via our identification with gender as it manifests in the mind-body complex and thought-forms of inherited narratives. Instead of realizing the unique way gender-expression manifests in every single one of us as a garb/vehicle, just like the unique physical body or personality, we have taken it to be who we are, and projected a ‘reality’ accordingly.

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A fair indicator of a co-dependence-free connection (including in subtle energy) is when ‘you’ have no pressing need for ‘them’ to get ‘you,’ or for ‘you’ to get ‘them’… and there’s an unconditional gladness that they get themselves, or an unconditional neutrality that they don’t!

Underneath is an understanding that is content-less and content-free… and so, unspoken and unconditional. Such a connection is as One. In Love.

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We give to en-joy our own inevitably giving nature. That there appears to be an “impact” on another, is a happy, immeasurable side-effect. This realization is the Union of ‘giver’ and ‘receiver’ — the giver receives (joy) and the receiver gives (joy), and there is only joyous (giving-)receiving!


P.S. This is how, “give back” is a fallacy. (As is “give forward.”) As soon as measurement / directionality enters, mind enters, “me” enters… and there’s no giving at all.

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Discern the difference between lifetime(s) and Life beyond time. Once this discernment is wholly alight, there is no longer the experience of lifetime(s); there is only timeless Life! I am the singular, absolute, infinite Life… birthless and deathless. This is moksha/ nirvana/ heaven/ liberation.

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The true “falling in Love” is actually the falling of veils such that the separate “me” disappears, and Love is all there is. In (the veils) falling in Love, the access to the realization –I am Love– is more continuously abiding, while “me” continuously dissolves/dies into the ocean of Love… that I am. As such, the more (sustained access to) Love there is, the less attention is naturally directed to what “the other” is doing (or not doing)… the less a “me” arises, the less an “other” arises.

In the absence of “me” and “you,” there is only Presence. There is only Love.

This is not relationship, as relating (relativity) requires a me and a you. This is absolute. This is Union.

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